I am barren, my husband has impregnated girl, 18

Dear Obaa Yaa,

I am 40 years old married for 10 years. I have been to so many hospitals in the country, herbalists and even to spiritualists for a help in child bearing, but to no avail.

My problem now is that, I have just been hinted that my husband has impregnated an 18- year old girl.

He does everything for her. Even though he has not neglected me, I am very hurt, and what can I do?

Akua,

Koforidua.

*******************************************************************************

Dear Akua,

IT is always good for everybody to investigate what he or she hears before whole-heartedly accepting it as a gospel truth.

Most rumours are peddled about people but they turn out to be false.

Anyhow, let your husband know, what you have heard and let him react to it. You may found out that it is a different story altogether.

However, if it turns out to be true, then it means your husband has not lived up to his marriage vows, and depending on what your religious principles and emotions are, you might advise yourself.

Another option is to stick to your husband and continue seeking a child of your own.

Don’t get stressed out though, take it cool and seek diligently for yours. One day, you will have the last laugh.

I am in love with a married man

Dear Obaa Yaa,

I am a 27- year- old lady who has fallen in love with a married man. I met this man on a business trip in koforidua of the Eastern Region.

I fell for him at first sight, though I knew he was married because he had a ring on his finger.

He took my number and started calling to check up on me. He is super nice, caring, soft spoken and gentle.

I began to develop feelings for him because he had all the qualities I needed in a man. He proposed to me and I accepted it.

Even though I knew he was married, it didn’t stop me from dating him. We started dating and he has been very supportive and loving.

I am madly in love with him that I wish he wasn’t married, yet I do not also want to break his home. I am doing everything possible to help him hide this affair from his wife.

I am not happy dating a married man but I love him. Please what should I do?

Worried lady, Alajo.

Dear worried lady,

I an happy you said you didn’t want to break someone’s home in the first place. It is rather unfortunate you have fallen in love with a married man.

You are a very beautiful young lady and everyman will be willing to settle down with a young lady.

Try as much as possible to avoid his calls and stay away from him.

Stay away from his lane and be careful. Mind you, you are a woman and there is Karma.

My wife feeds me with her sugar daddy’s money

Dear Obaa Yaa,

I am married to a beautiful young lady who is really very industrious. I lost my job recently and this woman has been taking care of me.

However, my friends keep telling me that she has a sugar daddy who gives her money.

I am inclined to believe this because the kind of money she brings home is far more than her pay as a typist.

The taught of this is even killing me softly. I don’t want to investigate this allegation because I am afraid of what I may see.

I love her so much. What should I do?

Nene,Odumase.

Dear Nene

You must act like a man. A man who loves his wife cannot allow another man to have her no matter their circumstance. The fact that you have lost your job doesn’t mean you should sell your dignity and integrity.

Be bold and confront your wife about the stories you are hearing about this sugar daddy stuff. You better stop her and the money she has been bringing home for your upkeep, or else she might also be bringing it for your obituary.

Investigate the stories and take steps to stop her from this adulterous behaviour on her part.

Make sure you get a job and be the man you are supposed to be.