Obaa Yaa
I am worried
Dear Obaa Yaa,
I am 35 years old, with no husband and no children even though it has been my wish.
I am becoming worried about the situation because of societal pressure, but more importantly, I would love children of my own but not without being married, because I know the problems associated with single parenthood.
What should I do to attract a man to marry me!
Single woman, Accra
Dear Lady,
What else can you do than making yourself attractive, sociable, sharing your time and efforts to the cause of others to show care and concern for them?
You see, when you show love, you receive love. Make yourself attractive and you will attract.
Don’t sit at home and brood, go to church, attend prayer meetings, socialise with church members and for all you know there is someone also looking for someone like you.
You also have to pray to God to give you someone you can live happily with. It is not just getting a husband, but someone who is a husband in the real sense of word with respect and responsibility, care, concern and love for better or for worse.