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Peace perfect peace
In this world, the most important thing is a peaceful environment in whatever endeavour you are engaged in.
Market women sell various items to the general public which plays a very important role in our socio-economic development. A visit to the ministries, will show civil servants going about their normal duties.
I believe people will go to church to worship God this Sunday and I believe others shall go to the Mosque on Friday to pray to Allah.
In the mornings, we will find people engaged in jogging as a way of exercising their bodies. All these activities cannot happen in a chaotic environment and therefore peace is essential in our everyday lives.
Peace, perfect peace, is therefore a requirement for the people in this country to go on with their lives.
I attended church service last Sunday, which was a day after elections. This would not have been possible in a chaotic environment.
I could go to church because there was peace in the immediate environs of the church and in Accra as a whole. I was given a role to play in church so Sunday was one of the memorable days in my life and I could not have experienced such a moment had peace not reigned after the elections last Saturday.
We need to congratulate ourselves as Ghanaians for going through yet another election where power has been or is being transferred from an incumbent party to the opposition party.
This is what is expected of us as Ghanaians, given our accommodating nature. The processes of our electoral system must be improved so that issues that gave ruse to pockets of disagreement at some polling stations and some collation centres will stop.
We should be thankful to God for a peaceful country after the elections. We must commend ourselves again for the generally peaceful post elections atmosphere and this must be sustained in subsequent elections so our credentials as democratic icon in Africa shall remain untainted.
The leadership of the various political parties must embark on serious educational drive to endure that their supporters recognise the need to maintain peace after elections. There has been reports of looting and disturbances in various places including government institutions. These must be frowned upon by all well-meaning Ghanaians.
We should not indulge in criminal acts and such incidents must be dealt with by the appropriate security agencies so the peace we all have enjoyed over the years shall be sustained.
There is a song in the Methodist Hymn Book which says Peace Perfect Peace In this Dark World of Sin … which is a reminder that we need peace because we are in a world of continuous turmoil.
We need to make a conscious effort to create a peaceful environment in our communities and by extension throughout the country. We should all realise that until Jesus comes, elections will take place every four years and is not something that should not allowed to divide us as a people and cause us to lose the peace we enjoy.
Let us all make up our minds that we shall never allow elections to divide us and create tension in our communities but will always strive for Peace, Perfect Peace.
BY LAUD KISSI-MENSAH
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The power of change: Understanding the process and catalysts
CHANGE is an inevitable and essential aspect of life, shaping individuals, organizations, and societies. It can be transformative, leading to growth, innovation, and progress. But how is change created?
This comprehensive article explores the process and catalysts of change.
The Change Process
The change process involves several stages:
1. Awareness: Recognising the need for change.
2. Assessment: Evaluating the current state.
3. Visioning: Envisioning the desired future state.
4. Planning: Developing strategies and action plans.
5. Implementation: Executing the plan.
6. Evaluation: Monitoring progress and making adjustments.
Catalysts of Change
Several factors can catalyse change:
1. Internal Motivation: Personal or organisational desire for improvement.
2. External Pressures: Market trends, technological advancements, or regulatory requirements.
3. Leadership: Visionary leaders driving change.
4. Crisis: Forced change due to unexpected events.
5. Innovation: New ideas and technologies.
Types of Change
Change can be:
1. Incremental: Gradual, small-scale changes.
2. Transformational: Radical, large-scale changes.
3. Strategic: Planned, deliberate changes.
4. Emergent: Spontaneous, unplanned changes.
Change Management
Effective change management involves:
1. Communication: Clear messaging and stakeholder engagement.
2. Training: Developing skills and knowledge.
3. Support: Providing resources and guidance.
4. Monitoring: Tracking progress and addressing challenges.
Resistance to Change
Resistance can arise due to:
1. Fear: Uncertainty and anxiety.
2. Habit: Comfort with the status quo.
3. Lack of Understanding: Insufficient information.
4. Power Dynamics: Threats to authority or control.
Overcoming Resistance
Strategies to overcome resistance include:
1. Education: Providing information and context.
2. Involvement: Engaging stakeholders in the change process.
3. Support: Addressing concerns and fears.
4. Leadership: Demonstrating commitment and vision.
Sustaining Change
To sustain change:
1. Embed Change: Integrate new practices and behaviors.
2. Monitor Progress: Continuously evaluate and adjust.
3. Celebrate Successes: Recognize achievements.
4. Maintain Momentum: Keep the change process moving.
Conclusion
Change is a complex and multifaceted process. Understanding the change process, catalysts, and management strategies can help individuals and organizations navigate and create meaningful change.
Recommendations
1. Develop a Change Mindset: Embrace change as an opportunity.
2. Build Change Capacity: Develop skills and resources.
3. Foster a Culture of Change: Encourage innovation and experimentation.
By Robert Ekow Grimmond-Thompson
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This question of love
The question of love is something that will be talked about until kingdom come.
A discussion I observed on the internet about a 19 year old who had accepted the proposal of a 67 year old man reminded me of the preaching of Pastor Mensa Otabil.
He talked about the a scenario where a 60 year old man enters into a relationship with a 22 year old lady and the lady tells him I love you, when he has a protruded belly, with all the accompanying creases and he believes what she says.
He further went on to say that a whole grown up man, allows a young lady to call him “babe” and he does not feel offended.
He further went on to preach that, this young lady, young enough to be his daughter, says “babe, I love you” and this man sheepishly laughs and does not realise, he is being taken advantage of.
What keeps ringing in my ears is his statement that “what is there to love about a protruding sagging belly?”
There is no regulated way for how a person falls in love. It reminds me of a funny statement that Pastors or marriage counsellors often use, that if you fall in love, you may hurt yourself.
Love I believe is a beautiful thing but it is not something that should be toyed with. People getting into relationships should consider the realities that are bound to happen as the years go by.
Jealousy is a very destructive influence. It can influence a person to harm his wife or her husband or to even commit murder. There has been countless reported instances where a man has poured acid on his wife or girlfriend, slashed his wife to death with a cutlass because he suspected, the wife was cheating on him.
It is something that blinds one to right reasoning and once your reasoning stops functioning, then the wrong side of us takes over and the result is nothing to write home about. In most cases, it comes out after the horrible act has been perpetrated, that there was no truth in the issue that caused the jealousy, after all. However, a life would have been maimed, disfigured or destroyed forever.
One of the causes of jealousy in marriage is the age gap difference. Whether we like it or not we shall grow old one day if God by his grace enables us to live long. When we grow old, a lot of changes occur in our bodies and things we used to do with ease, suddenly become a huge challenge and it could be very frustrating.
One of the things that drives a man crazy is when he has grown weaker in bed and sees the wife interacting with younger men in a suspicious manner that seems to suggest that there is more to it than meets the eye.
Jealousy will definitely be kindled in the heart of such a man whose wife is far younger than him like this 67 year old man wanting to marry a 19 year young lady.
In 30 years’ time, this man will be 97 and his muscles would have become weaker affecting his erection. His wife would be 49 and will have to be satisfied in bed in a manner that this man cannot execute. What do you think is going to happen?
Marriage Counsellors advocate that the ideal age gap between marriage partners should not be more than 10 years. This is one way to eliminate suspicions which results in mistrust when the man grows old and gets weaker because it is a known fact that sex is very important to men than women.
A man becomes very worried when his sexual performance level drops. This is what causes some men to act in a manner that is condemnable. My advice, walk into love, don’t fall into it. God bless.
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By Laud Kissi-Mensah
