Some signs he wants a future with you

I’m always here to help you understand what is actually going on. If you’ve been getting a feeling that your guy is planning to spend the rest of his life with you, you definitely need confirmation. You cannot just go up to him and ask him because if he isn’t, you’re going to scare him away and come off as a desperate little girl, which you’re not. If you’re having doubts about whether your boyfriend is serious about you or wants to share his future with you, the following are signs that he is serious and wants to spend his life with you!

 He introduces you to his family

If, after a long time of you guys being in a relationship, your boyfriend insists on taking you home to introduce you to his parents, it might mean that he’s thinking about his life together with you. Keep an ear out for ‘you’re the first girl he has brought home’ or ‘he rarely introduces us to a girlfriend’ because this is a positive sign, and he is serious about you. You’d be surprised how many guys are reluctant to bring a girl home.

 He stands up for you even if his family on the other side

If he’s always there to defend your honour, that means he is head over heels for you. But does this mean he has a future planned out with you? Boyfriends usually do protect their girls, so no. It might mean that he wants to marry you when it comes to family. If, for some reason, his family is against you, and even then, he doesn’t let that affect your relationship, this means he wants to be with you. Nobody risks losing their family for some girl they’re ‘just dating’.

He sub-consciously makes future plans with you

‘Let’s go on a world tour once we retire,’ ‘How many kids do you want, ‘let’s settle down in New York’ are just random comments from him. Girls might say such things without actually meaning it, but for guys, it’s different. They are cautious about sending across the message of settling down with a girl unless they have thought about it themselves. So if your guy is comfortable saying these things to you, this means he has been thinking about it.

He starts behaving shady and saving money

Girls, this one is a complicated little one because it could either mean that he’s going to propose or that he’s cheating on you – well, that escalates quickly… If your guy all of a sudden has started cutting back on expenses and is being secretive, this might mean that he’s planning a proposal and wants to spend the saved money on getting you a ring. You’ll know which case it is because coming home late and ignoring your phone calls will warn you if it’s the latter. This shady behaviour is safe, like dropping hints like I have a surprise or we’re going away for the weekend, etc.

Something fishy in your jewelry drawer or maybe just a ring is missing

This one is the cutest sign and maybe one that ensures a proposal is on the way. No matter how secretive a guy is, he needs your finger size to get a ring that fits. For this purpose, he needs to go through your jewelry. Little do guys know, but girls will always realise if somebody has touched their stuff and definitely when a piece of their jewelry is missing. If your ring is missing or your boyfriend tries to ask your ring size jokingly, then expect a proposal anytime soon.