Fruitful Living
WE HAVE TO STOP BLAMING OURSELVES

One of the lies of Satan is to get us to believe that if God is not doing something fast enough in our lives, it is our fault. Have you ever asked the question why me or what did I do to deserve this? Many times, the answer is nothing. However, I am not talking about people who choose to willfully live in sin, that’s a whole different conversation.
I want to give you hard truth. We live in a sinful, fallen world. There will be things that will happen simply because of this fact. This reality will sometimes leave questions that may never get answered on this side of eternity. If and when these things happen, don’t blame yourself. If you are walking with God and obeying his word, even then life will happen. We have to understand that as believers our hope is not just for this life. All of God’s goodness will not be experienced in this life. He has even more planned for us. Let us stop blaming ourselves when something unexpected happens. Remember that it is not our fault and recognize the best is yet to come.
“No eye has seen, no ear has heard, and no mind has conceived what God has prepared for those who love him” – 1 Corinthians 2:9.
WE HAVE TO BELIEVE AND TRUST
Let’s face it, the Christian walk is a walk of faith and trust. There is no way around it. 2 Corinthians 5:7 reminds us of this truth: “For we live by faith, not by sight.”
The hard part about faith is that many times the circumstances don’t always align. Where you are going doesn’t always match where you are. If you remember Joseph’s story, he was headed to the palace yet he had to go through prison before he got there. This is where faith and trust come into play. Faith says “I don’t know what you are doing but I know you are working it out for my good. Because I believe that, then I can trust you.”
Just like we often group grace and mercy together, faith and trust are necessary if we are going to understand what God is doing in our life.
Fruitful Living
Hope – seeing the unseen
As children of God, we eagerly anticipate this future glory. This hope motivates us to endure present hardships, knowing that they pale in comparison to the joy that awaits us. The ultimate hope of the believer is the eradication of sin and death, and the perfection of our souls in Christ.
The Example of Paul
The Apostle Paul exemplified unwavering hope. He was not afraid of death because he was confident in his eternal destiny. He declared in 2 Corinthians 5:6-8: “Therefore we are always confident and know that as long as we are at home in the body we are away from the Lord. For we live by faith, not by sight. We are confident, I say, and would prefer to be away from the body and at home with the Lord.”
Facing the future can bring anxiety, but if we believe in Christ, we can share Paul’s confidence. This hope should inspire us to live faithfully, knowing that our eternal home is secure in Christ.
Hope and Personal Transformation
Many of us struggle with our past failures and sins. However, hope in Christ allows us to release our past and embrace the future. Philippians 3:13-14 encourages us: “Brothers and sisters, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus.”
Rather than dwelling on past mistakes, we should focus on growing in our knowledge of God and deepening our relationship with Him. Our sins are forgiven, and through hope, we can move forward into a life of greater purpose and fulfillment.
Seeing the Unseen
Living by faith requires us to see beyond the natural world. We are called to perceive the unseen reality of God’s promises. 2 Corinthians 4:18 reiterates this truth: “While we do not look at the things which are seen, but at the things which are not seen. For the things which are seen are temporary, but the things which are not seen are eternal.”
This perspective enables us to endure hardships, knowing that our ultimate reward is not found in this life but in the eternal kingdom of God. Hope empowers us to move forward, trusting that God is leading us to a place of fulfillment.
Conclusion
Seeing the unseen is fundamental to a life of faith. As believers, we are called to look beyond the visible and trust in the eternal promises of God. Hope strengthens us to persevere through difficulties, knowing that our present struggles are nothing compared to the glory that awaits us.
Just as Paul pressed forward, undeterred by past failures and present trials, we too must hold on to the hope that is found in Jesus Christ. Our hope assures us that one day, all suffering will be replaced with joy, and every tear will be wiped away. Let us, therefore, live each day with unwavering faith, keeping our eyes on the unseen, and allowing God’s Word to guide us into His glorious future.
- Culled from faithgateway.com.
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Conditions, rules, regulations of fasting (Pt.2)
Who is Required to Fast?
Fasting in Ramadan is obligatory for every Muslim who meets the following conditions:
- Muslim – Fasting is only required for those who believe in Islam.
- Mature (Baligh) – A person must have reached puberty.
- Of Sound Mind – A person must be mentally capable of understanding the obligation.
- Physically Able – A person must be in good health.
- Non-Traveler (Muqeem) – Fasting is not required for those traveling long distances.
Who is Excused from Fasting?
Islam, in its wisdom and mercy, has granted exemptions to those who are unable to fast. These exemptions are categorised as follows:
Those Who Are Completely Exempt and Must Pay Fidya
Some people are permanently unable to fast due to health reasons. Instead, they are required to feed a poor person for each day they miss fasting. This is based on the Quranic verse:
“And upon those who can only fast with extreme difficulty, there is a ransom (fidya): feeding a poor person.” (Surah Al-Baqarah 2:184)
This category includes:
- Elderly individuals who are too weak to fast.
- Chronically ill patients who have permanent health conditions that prevent fasting.
Those Who Are Temporarily Exempt but Must Make Up Their Fasts
- Sick individuals with temporary illness.
- Travellers who undertake a journey that permits shortening of prayer (Qasr Salah).
- Pregnant women and lactating mothers who fear for their health or their child’s well-being.
The Qur’an states:
“But if any of you is ill or on a journey, then the same number of days must be made up later.” (Surah Al-Baqarah 2:185)
These individuals must fast later once their situation allows them to do so.
Women in Special Circumstances
- Menstruating women: It is prohibited for them to fast, and they must make up the missed fasts later (Bukhari, 1951).
- Pregnant and breastfeeding women: They are exempt if fasting poses a hardship. Some scholars allow them to pay fidya if they fear only for the child and not themselves.
Key Things to Observe Before Starting the Fast
- Make Up Outstanding Fasts – Complete any missed obligatory fasts before Ramadan.
- Confirm the Sighting of the Crescent Moon – Follow the method of local or global moon sighting.
- Make the Intention (Niyyah) – It must be made before Fajr (Abu Dawood, 2454).
- Eat Suhoor (Pre-Dawn Meal) – It is Sunnah and provides blessings (Bukhari, 1923).
- Be Mindful of Suhoor Time – Stop eating at Fajr time.
Prohibited Actions During Fasting
- Eating and drinking during fasting hours.
- Marital relations (intercourse) during the day (Bukhari, 1936).
- Taking nutritional injections that provide nourishment.
- Smoking as it breaks the fast.
- Engaging in sinful behaviour like lying and backbiting (Bukhari, 1903).
Recommendations for a Rewarding Ramadan
- Increase in worship – Pray Tahajjud, recite Quran, and make Du’a frequently.
- Give generously in charity – The Prophet (ﷺ) was most generous in Ramadan (Bukhari, 1902).
- Observe I’tikaf in the last ten nights to seek Laylatul Qadr.
- Strengthen relationships – Seek forgiveness and maintain ties of kinship.
In conclusion, dear brothers and sisters, fasting in Ramadan is a divine gift and an opportunity for immense rewards. It is not just about abstaining from food and drink, but a means to purify our hearts, strengthen our faith, and attain taqwa.
Let us take this opportunity to repent for our past sins, seek Allah’s mercy, and strive for spiritual growth. May Allah grant us the strength to fast sincerely and accept our efforts in this blessed month.
Ameen.
References:
- Quran – Surah Al-Baqarah (2:183-185).
- Sahih Bukhari – Hadith 8, 1902, 1903, 1936, 1951.
- Sahih Muslim – Hadith 16.
- Abu Dawood – Hadith 2454.
- By Imam Alhaji Saeed Abdulai – 1 BN Michel Camp, Tema