I am barren, my husband has impregnated girl, 18

 Dear Obaa Yaa,

I am 40 years old married for 10 years. I have been to so many hospitals in the country, herb­alists and even to spiritualists for a help in child bearing, but to no avail.

My problem now is that, I have just been hinted that my husband has impregnated an 18- year old girl.

He does everything for her. Even though he has not neglected me, I am very hurt, and what can I do?

Akua,

Koforidua.

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Dear Akua,

IT is always good for everybody to investigate what he or she hears before whole-heartedly accepting it as a gospel truth.

Most rumours are peddled about people but they turn out to be false.

Anyhow, let your husband know, what you have heard and let him react to it. You may found out that it is a different story alto­gether.

However, if it turns out to be true, then it means your husband has not lived up to his marriage vows, and depending on what your religious principles and emotions are, you might advise yourself.

Another option is to stick to your husband and continue seek­ing a child of your own.

Don’t get stressed out though, take it cool and seek diligently for yours. One day, you will have the last laugh.