Hot!
Some signs that you are a rebound girl
First of all, you need to know what rebound is – it is an undefined period that falls right after a breakup. During this period, a lady or a gentleman tends to find an escape from the trauma faced due to recent emotional setbacks. And it is a crucial period during which several girls and boys make wrong decisions that further aggravate the situation.
What is a Rebound Girl?
You know what rebound means. Now let’s have a look at what a rebound girl is. A rebound girl can be in a relationship, but it is a short-lived and unstable connection based mainly on benefits. To be clear, I can further say that a rebound girl is all about sex for the other man. Nothing more than that! Things can change, times can vary, but a rebound relationship is not healthy.
If you are a rebound girl, your man would not show any feelings and keep you dating. He will contact you whenever he needs your body. It is a typical, friends with benefits sort of scenario.
Being someone’s temporary companion just for the sake of sex or filling that emotional void is an unnecessary burden for you, girl. It is essential to figure out your space in someone’s life before things get complicated. Here, you will find some clues that tell you that you are a rebound girl.
- He complains
He would complain a lot about the habits of his ex that how she messed up his life, and how much he dislikes her. That clearly shows that he holds resentment in the form of strong feelings for her. And that eventually puts him in a spot not to take you seriously.
- He broke up recently
If he just came out of a long relationship, you are indeed the rebound girl. There is a lot of difference between separation and breakup. Separation is more of a mutual settlement, while breakup costs more. So if he had a breakup recently, he is undoubtedly using you.
- He loves talking about her
Apart from the criticism, he also talks about what he misses related to his ex. There is nothing wrong with that, but you need to see where you stand. Are you plan B or just a time pass? Reconsider your investment and keep it cool.
- He compares
Does he compare you with his ex? If yes, it’s a clear-cut indication that he is either warning or demeaning you. He might be looking for the traits of his ex in you, but that doesn’t mean that he values you. He is looking for something that isn’t a part of your personality. He is not for you.
To be continued…
Hot!
ASWIM lauds Prof Naana Jane Opoku-Agyemang
The Association of Women in the Media, (ASWIM) has congratulated Professor Naana Jane Opoku-Agyemang on her historic achievement as Ghana’s first female Vice President.
The association said her trailblazing journey with sterling accomplishments from academia to politics, is undoubtedly, a vivid inspiration to countless women and girls across Ghana and Africa.
This was contained in a statement signed by its president, Mrs Mavis Kitcher, and copied to The Spectator on Tuesday in Accra.
“ASWIM celebrates your remarkable career, marked by numerous firsts, including the first female Vice-Chancellor of the University of Cape Coast, (UCC), and the first female to hold a professional chair in Ghana, (UCC),” the statement said.
It said the accomplishments of Prof Opoku- Agyemang were clear testament to the brilliance, resilience and resourceful nature of the complete beautiful African woman.
“As she takes on this new role, ASWIM proudly lauds her commitment to education, women’s empowerment, distinguished public service and patriotism and is very confident that her pursuit of excellence, love for humanity, humility, decency, modesty and commitment to the welfare of the vulnerable will characterise Ghana’s political leadership and public service,” the statement added.
By Jemima Esinam Kuatsinu
Entertainment
Demolition of Fantasy Dome unfair — Mark Okraku-Mantey
Months after the Fantasy Dome was dismantled to make way for construction at the Ghana International Trade Fair site, the Deputy Minister of Tourism, Arts and Culture, Mr Mark Okraku-Mantey, has expressed concern over the manner the facility was destroyed.
In an interview on Daybreak Hitz with Andy Dosty, Mr Okraku-Mantey criticised the handling of the dome’s dismantling, suggesting that it could have been done without causing damage.
“I don’t think that leadership gave instructions that they should do what happened. The structure was a prefab but I hear the people destroyed it. That one, we cannot defend it. It is unfair to him (owner). Sometimes, you give instructions and people will go and do things that will make you look bad,” he stated.
When asked about any punitive measure against the workers responsible for the destruction, Mr Okraku-Mantey clarified that the Trade Fair does not fall under his ministry.
He said he had previously contacted the owner, Leslie Quaynor, to discuss relocating the dome, and even suggested the National Museum as a potential site, though it was too small.
The demolition of the 20,000-seater Fantasy Dome occurred on March 16, 2024.
According to Dr Agnes Adu, CEO of the Ghana Trade Fair Company Limited, the action was taken after multiple notices were given to Quaynor to vacate the premises for redevelopment, as per their tenancy agreement.
Dr Adu noted that all previous tenants had complied except for the Fantasy Dome.
Quaynor, in an interview with JoyNews, confirmed that his lease had ended, and was in the process of relocating the dome.
He had requested an extension, which was denied, leading him to seek a writ and an injunction from an Accra High Court to halt the demolition.
Despite this, the demolition proceeded, causing significant damage to the structure.
Quaynor described the incident as a major setback, not only for his business but also for the entertainment industry, which relies on venues like the Fantasy Dome.
